how to change for good ?

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for those who think that making a changing is kind of the hardest things to do, lets see this 4 tips that maybe can helps .


first , have a solid intention in your heart. when you already put something in your mind to change, you will try even harder to get what you want. the very first hadith 40, innamal a'malu bil niat. with every single thing that we want to do, we have to start it with niyah . and that is why we really need to have a solid, concrete intention in our heart to stay and keep strong whenever we feel despair with anything .

and this lead to the second tips which is, find yourself a very good companion. a friends who can help you come high or hell water. whenever we are in the hardest situation that we think we can't face it on that time, we really need someone who can push us to stay put, to stay stronger facing all those tests . 

and for having a very good companion is the most beautiful gift that Allah has sent to us in order to face the journey of doing a changers. 

for the third tip is, keep ourselves to pray to Him, to Allah. asked Allah what you want, "oh Allah, I want to be good, I want to leave my past, I want to have the new me in present and future, oh Allah help me"  keep on praying to Him. and he surely will help you by giving us a test in order as a exercise for us to see how hard we try to be good. 

and the last thing is, the forth tip is, do have sabr. in order to change for good, to be good, is not the absolute things that happens in one day. making a changers in your life is a journey, not a destination. every single day, we have to fix ourselves in order to be better day by day. being better from yesterday, for the present, and for the tomorrow. learn how to control our emotion when ever we think to have a lot of thing to think. 

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may Allah ease everything for us. you and me.

may both of us find the way to be better. 

may we can be the better version of ourselves in future, 

may we will die in His's blessing 

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my alter ego,

im sorry for being unpredictable, stubborn, and all those negative attitude. 

im sorry.

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i won't hurt myself if ibu and ayah won't give their permission and redha. 

may we keep in His's blessing and be kind in anything . 

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