awkwardness kills the surrounding

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when you start to rebuild your circle, you tends to feel like, 'okey, this person aren't should be in my circle anymore, ' 'I can't speak properly anymore to her/him' 

when things be like this, all you need to do is, let it be. just let it be as it be. don't think, just let it just follow the flow. get the grip as fast as you can and try to not be to direct . because, this thing will attract others attention and it surely be a problem when they started to ask. so, it is better to just do a normal things that you usually do, and if that person really out of you circle, it do not mean that she is not in your surrounding . just be nice, do not do harsh things. 

even before this, that person do hurts you, please don't hurt them. it is really unfair, but, try to not creating more issues with them , can we ? 

Im not trying to say, lets be nice, be good, it is just like, doing kindness is not asking for our money right?  even a cent. 

so, no matter how hard it is, try not to crash your whole day just because of that 10 seconds issues. it is not worth it to fight for. 

slowly, try to forgive them, people do makes mistake. so do we. as we want others to forgive us, lets do the same. 

as Allah give His forgiveness, why not us ? 

just be nice and good . 

as someone used to say this to me, "being nice is a dean obligation right ? "

right .